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March 2009
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Questioning Zero Tolerance & School Suspension
by Barry MacDonald
As parents and educators, we naturally want to know that schools are
safe, secure places where our children can thrive. When we
hear about lock-downs, school shootings, bullying, or other credible
threats to our students’ safety, we may long for swift, certain
and decisive responses that will guarantee our children’s well-being.
Students,
parents and staff need to trust that endangerment of those
in our care will not be permitted at school.
I agree that there
should be a clear-cut and swift response to those truly threatening—but
rare—behaviours such as gun
or knife possession. However, many thoughtful educators question
the effectiveness of a heavy-handed application of a Zero Tolerance
policy, where the law is used as a weapon of control for common
misbehaviours. What are the logical consequences of using suspension
and expulsion every time the school’s conduct code is violated?
Who is learning what when suspension is the knee-jerk disciplinary response
to a range of typical adolescent misbehaviours such as swearing,
defiance, fighting, smoking and even truancy?
It is worthy of
note that even among recent national reports reviewing literature
on school safety, including the U.S. Surgeon General’s
Report on Youth Violence, none has designated Zero Tolerance
or suspension as an effective or even as a promising approach.
Put more simply, there is no data that Zero Tolerance or suspension
makes a difference either in improving school safety or improving
student behaviour.
We might also ask ourselves why boys at a certain
age return from the office or from a suspension to a hero’s welcome.
How logical is the idea that a student who skips school should
be punished by not being allowed to come to school? How fair
is it to impose a suspension that is lengthier than the time
missed? And what are the real costs of the suspended student’s
further disconnectedness from school?
Student success initiatives
address underlying causes of misbehaviour and underachievement
rather than punishing students by sending them home, particularly
for truancy, tardiness and disengagement.
According to sociologist
Karen Sterneimer, we may choose to focus on schools as scary
places in order to avoid looking at systematic problems facing the schools—problems
of overcrowding, tired and obsolescent materials, fragmented communities.
It is certainly easier to see troubled students and misbehaviour as
the problem, rather than raising questions about larger institutional
issues, or about the underlying reasons for student disengagement, apathy,
or even aggression.
In my work with youth, parents and teachers over the years,
I have consistently found that truant and tardy students are
often anxious and frustrated students. These youth, who are
typically overwhelmed with managing school and life responsibilities,
need support, not admonishment. Evidence shows children are
more likely to grow into caring, courageous and ethical people
when they are treated with respect rather than manipulative
control.
The following email from a parent raises questions
about the effectiveness of suspension and Zero Tolerance as
applied to a misbehaviour fairly typical for adolescents on
a school fieldtrip. It also highlights how consequences should
be carefully designed so that they do not inadvertently become
reinforcers.
Dear Barry,
Recently our son was suspended from school. My husband and
I have consistently backed up school staff over the years,
but this time their decision to suspend seems harsh and just
wrong. Allow me to elaborate.
Recently, our son James who is
in Grade 11, travelled to a neighbouring town on the weekend
with his boys’ basketball team
for the regional games. The girls’ team also traveled to the same
town for the same purpose, and each team stayed at hotels across
the street from each other. Before departure the youth were
told that the two teams were not to have any contact whatsoever
and that breaking this rule would result in immediate withdrawal
of play and school suspension.
As it turned out, my son and two other
boys broke the rule and visited their girlfriends at the girls’ hotel
lobby on Friday night around 10pm. Apparently when the teacher
chaperone approached the lobby my son and his friend hid in the lobby
washroom while the third boy ran down a hallway and into one of the
girl’s
rooms.
In response to the girls’ nervous gestures and giggling
the chaperone suspected something was up and pressed the girls
for information. They avoided the truth, but rumour has it
that one of the girls kept looking at the male lobby washroom.
The jig was up and everyone was caught.
As an example to the other team players
all three boys and five girls involved were withdrawn from
all of the weekend games and the boys received an official
one day suspension from school upon return. The boy who ran
down the hallway and into one of the girl’s hotel
room received a three-day suspension. Upon returning to school
after a day at home the school staff gave the impression that
because the piper had been paid the discipline was now over.
When I questioned
the principal about the appropriateness of the withdrawal of
play and suspension he said: “It was the rule.
They broke the rule. Now they must pay the price. Don’t worry,
all will be well in a couple of days.” I walked away incensed
with his simplistic thinking and the lack of appreciation for
what it’s
like to be 16.
The youth involved are very angry about not playing
basketball and being suspended and it seems that our community
of parents are conducting informal parking lot polls and taking
sides. While some expected it to happen others tout on about
tough love. Is the school’s method
of managing behaviour appropriate in this situation? What should
I do?
Wilma,
Frustrated mom in Metro Vancouver
Dear Wilma,
Watching our children grow toward independence can be both
a heartwarming and heartrending experience.
When kids get off-track
in some way, parents are often told that teaching responsibility
requires laying down the law, as well as demanding compliance
with increasingly strict rules. Yet, as any parent of an adolescent
knows, it’s
a lot easier to make the rules than to enforce—or negotiate—them.
Before
considering any disciplinary action, we need ask ourselves: “What’s
the task?” Is it reasonable to expect that young males and females
in Grade 11 not visit each other while on a parallel sports
fieldtrip?
Your school’s NO OPPOSITE GENDER PEER CONTACT RULE ON
TRIPS reminds me of the simplistic tactics counseled by Supernanny
or Assertive Discipline, where everything—including young people’s
feelings and critical reflections—are sacrificed to the imperative
of obedience. Black and white rules, with unswerving enforcement,
may work with canine training, but have limited effectiveness
with youth.
Television’s no-nonsense Supernanny who orders that
kids stand in the “naughty corner” would likely support
your school administrator’s decision to suspend, but I have grim
reservations about the effectiveness of suspensions, as well
as what is commonly referred to as a Zero Tolerance approach to teach
youth appropriate behaviour. At its core the Zero Tolerance approach
relies on bribes and threats with the underlying purpose of enforcement.
But what if the school’s rules do not reflect best practice? What
if the rules are a set-up for failure? What if these rules
have been designed simply to “get the trains to run on time”—not
minding whom they run over?
Zero Tolerance is counter-productive
because it doesn’t teach
respect or cooperation. No one is born with perfect social
skills. Don’t
we need to model the respect and kindness we want to see in
adolescents?
Suspension is a controversial school practice.
Being suspended often reduces the student’s sense of connectedness
to school, so that the youth have less and less to lose. It
can also be counter-productive when a boy who bucks the system receives
a hero’s
welcome upon return. Are staff and administrators at your school
aware of the studies that question the limited effectiveness
of school suspension? Are they aware of measures they can take to reduce
the use of school suspensions, and the current research about the benefits
of restorative discipline?
When young people are forced to obey rules
that to them seem arbitrary, they often feel disrespected,
and then have to figure out some way to shore up their personal
integrity. Depending upon how powerful they feel or what options they
see as open to them, they may fight openly, or they may resist passively.
Laying down the law teaches that might makes right, and that
respect goes in only one direction—up!
It is natural for boy-girl
interaction to occur on a field trip. This occasion could provide
parents and teachers opportunities to provide mentorship, a
chance to discuss hormones, attractions and self-guidance.
They might even arrange co-ed chaperoned meetings or activities while
young people are away from home.
Responding to the predictable ups and
downs of teenage experimentation is less about managing or
controlling behaviour, and more about promoting dialogue, reflection
and responsibility. Engaging in authentic conversation with
teens means learning to let go of some control, some part of the adult
agenda. Adults must learn to listen to young people as they engage in
the potentially awkward and unpredictable process of working with youth
to decide what socially responsible behaviour looks like. This
doesn’t mean that youth automatically get their way. They do,
however, need their say.
Learning to set up discipline that
teaches takes time, patience and skill. However, evidence shows
children are more likely to grow into caring, courageous and
ethical people when they are treated with calm reason and the
warmth of empathy rather than the tools of Darth Vader-like control.
I
encourage you to discuss my comments and suggestions with your
school administrator. Remember too that your school principal
may have pieces to the puzzle that you are not aware of or
rationales that you have not considered. If you are met with defensiveness,
provide some time and space for reflection and revisit the discussion
a few days later.
If you think that your school administrator is open,
you might consider mentioning Boy Smarts – chapter nine, “Discipline
that Teaches Rather than Punishes”—and also collaboration
nine in Boy Smarts Action Study Guide, which deals with restorative
measures and alternatives to suspension.
Another useful resource
for school administrators is the British Columbia Ministry
of Education document Focus on Suspension: A Resource for Schools
(1999),
which was made available to all BC school administrators and encourages
educators to develop alternatives to suspension: “Suspension
may in some situations have no effect or even increase the
likelihood of the behaviour reoccurring…out-of-school suspensions
can contribute to a student’s alienation from school and the likelihood
of the student dropping out.”
Although a few school administrators
hand out suspensions easily, most school principals recognize
their limitations, and even their counter-productiveness. These
wise principals, who know that the unflinching enforcement of rules
does not create inner responsibility or pro-social behaviour, reach
for more creative responses to young people’s behavioural
challenges. They know well that students learn respect for
self and others through a supportive school climate, respectful
interventions when necessary, and skilled, empathic guidance of the
next generation.
Barry MacDonald is a BC educator, author of Boy Smarts – Mentoring
Boys for Success at School, and founder of www.MentoringBoys.com. |